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> J P - Judging and perceiving refers to how an individual makes decisions in general; how they are, or are not, organized. > J P - Judging and perceiving refers to how an individual makes decisions in general; how they are, or are not, organized.
Judging (the correct type) likes plans. It likes lists and checking off things from the list. It likes knowing what's coming so it can be prepared. - Judging (the correct type) likes plans. It likes lists and checking off things from the list. It likes knowing what's coming so it can be prepared.
Perceiving (the worst thing in all of this, and that's a fact, I can't help it it's just reality) likes options. Have a sudden idea to go do something RIGHT NOW? Your perceiver friend is more likely to say yes to a sudden invitation, while also somehow never ever ever getting it through their skull that you don't like it when they do that to you because you like to plan ahead of time. - Perceiving likes options. Have a sudden idea to go do something RIGHT NOW? Your perceiver friend is more likely to say yes to a sudden invitation, while also somehow never ever ever getting it through their skull that you don't like it when they do that to you because you like to plan ahead of time.
An easy example of these is a J and a P go out to eat together. The J has a pretty good idea of what they want before they even get there, whereas the P arrives at the table, opens the menu, and begins browsing with nary a clue yet. They want to decide in the moment and they have no concept of being on time or making people wait or or or :megacatscream: An easy example of these is a J and a P go out to eat together. The J has a pretty good idea of what they want before they even get there, whereas the P arrives at the table, opens the menu, and begins browsing with nary a clue yet. They want to decide in the moment and they have no concept of being on time or making people wait or or or :megacatscream:
Harrison likes being 15 minutes late to get togethers. Despite sounding like a P thing, this is a J thing. Perceivers are often late because they're so in the moment, and without lots of training (typically from a J parent or two, or the Truth) they don't track time as readily. Harrison is a J who specifically likes being 15 minutes late so things are established and it isn't a whole cutscene when he walks in. I had a perceiver friend when I was growing up. He called me one day and was on his way to hang out with me, but literally never showed up. Turns out he kept getting occupied with things the entire day. I sat around waiting all day and he never showed. That's an extreme example, but there it is. Harrison likes being 15 minutes late to get togethers. Despite sounding like a P thing, this is a J thing. Perceivers are often late because they're so in the moment, and without lots of training (typically from a J parent or two, or the Truth) they don't track time as readily. Harrison is a J who specifically likes being 15 minutes late so things are established and it isn't a whole cutscene when he walks in. I had a perceiver friend when I was growing up. He called me one day and was on his way to hang out with me, but literally never showed up. Turns out he kept getting occupied with things the entire day. I sat around waiting all day and he never showed. That's an extreme example, but there it is.