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- Judging (the correct type) likes plans. It likes lists and checking off things from the list. It likes knowing what's coming so it can be prepared.
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- Perceiving likes options. Have a sudden idea to go do something RIGHT NOW? Your perceiver friend is more likely to say yes to a sudden invitation, while also somehow never ever ever getting it through their skull that you don't like it when they do that to you because you like to plan ahead of time.
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An easy example of these is a J and a P go out to eat together. The J has a pretty good idea of what they want before they even get there, whereas the P arrives at the table, opens the menu, and begins browsing with nary a clue yet. They want to decide in the moment and they have no concept of being on time or making people wait or or or :megacatscream:
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An easy example of these is a J and a P go out to eat together. The J has a pretty good idea of what they want before they even get there, whereas the P arrives at the table, opens the menu, and begins browsing with nary a clue yet. They want to decide in the moment and they have no concept of being on time or making people wait.
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Harrison likes being 15 minutes late to get togethers. Despite sounding like a P thing, this is a J thing. Perceivers are often late because they're so in the moment, and without lots of training (typically from a J parent or two, or the Truth) they don't track time as readily. Harrison is a J who specifically likes being 15 minutes late so things are established and it isn't a whole cutscene when he walks in. I had a perceiver friend when I was growing up. He called me one day and was on his way to hang out with me, but literally never showed up. Turns out he kept getting occupied with things the entire day. I sat around waiting all day and he never showed. That's an extreme example, but there it is.
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That's the introduction. Please feel free to grill me with questions. This whole thing gets more and more complicated, but has learnable and consistent patterns once you get some of this down.
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For example, once you start getting more familiar with these letters and what they represent, then you can start noticing how they work together. A fun thing to start learning is the various two letter combos. NF's, SP's, SJ's.
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For example, an SP (xSxP, so could be like ESTP or ISFP or whatever) is a sensor and a perceiver. No plan, only play! What's right in front of me? SP's are fun loving people. Partying, drinking, sports, good times. Your ESTP friend is gonna be there in the middle of the party arguing with me about the way I phrased part of this, cuz they want that E energy, and they're a Thinker so they're on the logical train with that SP fun flare.
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