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We were told to write down exactly what we want in a mate, so here we go, yea?
- This one's a given, but spirituality matching or better then my own. I don't want to have to drag anyone to a meeting, and I need someone to drag me if anything ever happens. This would include willingness to serve where the need is greater, live simply, spend time in and enjoy service, etc.
- I want someone who's going to challenge me. Initially I thought "I want someone smart" or "I want someone determined", which yes are both true, but the underlying desire is someone that's going to be able to engage with me, consider my thoughts, and either validate them or tell me I'm an idiot, and explain why. Someone's who's going to push me to become something better
- This kind of coincides with the previous point, but I don't want a duplicate of myself. Some overlap is desired of course, but someone who has high proficiency in areas I don't understand, or even know exist would be ideal.
- My Japanese isn't awful, but someone who understands at least a bit of English, or is willing to put up with and help me learn Japanese will be required for communication.
- I don't want someone lazy. Someone involved, busy, part of everything would be nice