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Things to Keep in Mind

• You know, I thought we were humble. Humble people don't serve Jehovah on their own terms. Humble people don't pick and choose what they want to listen to. It took flying across the country, and the only voice that you'll listen to, to make you understand that. Don't take those words for granted.

  • Reina Side point: We thought she was talking about us. She wasn't. She was talking about herself. She couldn't deny an assignment that Jehovah gave her, because who is she to decide how she serves Jehovah.

• 1 Peter 5:6,7 - Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God, so that he may exalt you in due time, 7  while you throw all your anxiety* on him, because he cares for you.

Spiritual Advancement

For various reasons, our spiritual advancement needs to become a top priority. Here are some thoughts, that we can discuss at a later time

• Watch everything that comes out, including the long ones

  • ESPECIALLY THE LONG ONES

• Read everything that comes out, and mark it up like a toddler with a new sharpie

  • Suggestion: Thoughts on reading/watching something that came out on the website once a day?

    • Edit: Turns out we can just watch them as they come out. We thought we couldn't keep up, but once you start, there's no way to stop. Here we are begging for new releases.

• Its really about proving your priorities to Jehovah. Where will you spend your time?

  • A bit of a longer comment - Every human has the same amount of time. Therefore, one of the various things that we can do to differentiate ourselves from each other, is how we spend our time. It's also a feedback loop. The more you spend time studying, the more it gets in our system, the more we want to study. Very useful.

• Make Your Advancement Manifest

  • “Ponder over these things; be absorbed in them, that your advancement may be manifest to all persons.”​—1 TIM. 4:15.

  • Focuses on the example of Timothy. From a young man, early 20's, he was invited to be Paul's travelling companion.

  • Timothy was given the responsibility of appointing Elders & MS

    • Despite being given this responsibility, Paul also told Timothy to "make his advancement manifest to all persons." (1 Tim 4:15). Had not Timothy already done this, being given such a weight assignment?

  • Paul was talking about the advancement of Spiritual Qualities.

  • Speaking

    • “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.” (Matt. 12:34)

    • Our speech can reveal to others in the congregation our spiritual state.

      • instead of using speech that is undignified, negative, critical, or hurtful, mature Christians strive to build up, comfort, console, and encourage.

      • Readiness to speak up about our beliefs, and moral confictions with others

  • Conduct

    • Genuine Christian conduct, is not hypocritical.

      • Saying one thing, while doing the other

    • The love of riches is a sign of spiritual deficiency. Find contenment in a simple life.

    • Moderation in dress and grooming

    • Be an example in chasteness, specifically in that of sexual morality.

  • Love & Faith

    • Eph 4:2 - with all humility+ and mildness,+ with patience,+ putting up with one another in love,

    • Eph 4:32 - But become kind to one another, tenderly compassionate,+ freely forgiving one another just as God also by Christ freely forgave you.

    • 1 Cor 13:1-3 - If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels but do not have love, I have become a clanging gong or a clashing cymbal. 2 And if I have the gift of prophecy and understand all the sacred secrets and all knowledge,+ and if I have all the faith so as to move mountains,+ but do not have love, I am nothing.*+ 3 And if I give all my belongings to feed others,+ and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love,+ I do not benefit at all.

      • No matter how good we are, if we do not have love, then we are nothing, and offer nothing.

    • Timothy possessed strong faith when faced with incorrect doctrines being spread. We need to be like Timothy in todays world, not being swayed by any of the new "ideas" of correctness popping up in the world

  • Spiritual Advancement is not dependent on anything, but our obedience to Jehovah in our thoughts, speech, and conduct. Review the example of Timothy, and imitate it

• How to Attack an Outline video (10mins)

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  • When we get an outline, we should read it as soon as we get it, and use the next while for information gathering. Yes, research, but also listening to others experiences. Listening to perspectives. Listening for any and all informaiton that may benefit being in that talk

  • We should have far MORE info then we'll ever need to put in the talk. Then, we can start removing things. If we remove things, this implies that we think the content we don't cut, is more important then the content we did cut to deliver whatever the point of the outline is, to the audience that we need to deliver it to.

  • Generally, about half the talk is written for you in that outline. But, we don't just grab some quotes and experiences, slap em in and call it a talk. We need to examine what the information is talking about.

    • What's the point of the outline?

    • What's verbs are being highlighted?

    • What message is it trying to get across?

    • How can I cater this information to better benefit the audience I'll be delivering it to?

  • Also, these are outlines. They are not meant to be read verbatim. We have license to add or subtract anything that we feel needs to be added or subtracted, as long as it contributes to the point being made, and it fits better with who we're delivering it to.

• CO MS Meeting

  Appointed men accelerate ministry work. Serve as example for the congregation, including in the ministry.

  • Make it a matter of prayer

  • Work in harmony with prayers

  Bible Studies

  Make sure to put in your prayers (public, personal, family, etc.) for bible studies.

  Phil 2:13 - 13 For God is the one who for the sake of his good pleasure energizes you, giving you both the desire and the power to act.

  More we pray about it, more we think about it. More we think about it, more we look for opportunities, more we offer bible studies. More we offer bible studies, more we're going to pray about it. Feedback loop go brrr

  We can stimulatel boldness in others by sharing experiences

  Working in harmony with our prayers

  Go out in service, even on Sundays

  Informal Witnessing

  Apperently people witness through work a lot.

  If people ask questions, you can let them know that one of the things we do is study the bible with people. Not neccesarily offer them, but just say they exist, and let them bite if they want it.

  Public & Business Witnessing

  Isn't business witnessing just informal witnessing for these people?

  Return Visits

  Prepare for return visits. Know what to say

  Take notes, so you have something to say on the return.

  Bible Studies

  Best way to learn is by attending bible studies of others, and learn from them.

  • Prayer

    • Pray to Jehovah for a bible study

    • Pray for the desire to want it

      • But to do this, you have to want, to want it.

    • Pray for Boldness (And Tact) (1 Thess 2:2)

      • Note: This is not an inborn boldness. This boldness must come from Jehovah to be effective.

    • These things require frequent asking, its not a one time thing. Sounds familiar, yea?

  • Wisely use our time

    • House to house work has been proven to be the best way of starting bible studies in our territory.

    • Eccl 11:6 - Sow your seed in the morning and do not let your hand rest until the evening; for you do not know which will have success, whether this one or that one, or whether they will both do well.

      • Farmers realize that things take time. We are used to things not taking time. We should be used to things taking time, and effort. In several things

    • We can introduce simple bible truths by "did you know that..." or "have you heard that..."

    • Ministry needs to be the priority. Some appointed brothers need to say no to other things, even theocratic resposibilities so they can still be in the ministry. Ministry should be the priority.

  Continue Applying Yourselves to Teaching

  This actually just a part about the video in the dropdown above this, so reference that for most of the info.

  From the BE Book: "Talks that truly benefit the congregation require adequate forethought. Therefore, get into the habit of reading the material as soon as you receive each assignment. This will enable you to mull it over as you go about other activities. During the days or weeks before you give your talk, you may hear comments that help you see how best to apply the information. Situations may arise that reveal its timeliness. Reading and thinking about your assignment right after you receive it takes time, but this is time well spent. When you finally sit down to develop the outline, you will reap the benefits of having thought it out well in advance. Handling assignments in this way will greatly reduce stress and will help you to present material in a manner that is practical and that reaches the hearts of those in the congregation"

• Keeping and Gaining Jehovah's Holy Spirit

  WT16 April, using imagination for Bible reading

  Gaining and retaining God’s spirit. The holy spirit is God’s “free gift,” which he gladly grants to those who sincerely seek and request it. (Ac 2:38; Lu 11:9-13) A right heart is the key factor (Ac 15:8), but knowledge and conformity to God’s requirements are also essential factors. (Compare Ac 5:32; 19:2-6.) Once received, the Christian should not ‘grieve’ God’s spirit by disregarding it (Eph 4:30; compare Isa 63:10), taking a course contrary to its leading, fixing the heart on goals other than that to which it points and impels, rejecting the inspired Word of God and its counsel and application to oneself. (Ac 7:51-53; 1Th 4:8; compare Isa 30:1, 2.) By hypocrisy one can “play false” to that holy spirit by which Christ directs the congregation, and those who “make a test” of its power in this way follow a disastrous course. (Ac 5:1-11; contrast Ro 9:1.) Deliberate opposition to and rebellion against the evident manifestation of God’s spirit can mean blasphemy against that spirit, a sin that is unforgivable.​—Mt 12:31, 32; Mr 3:29, 30; compare Heb 10:26-31.

• Things to Pray for

  • Qualities

    • Love

      • For Jehovah

      • For the Congregation

      • For Reina

      • Let these be the pillars of our soul, and guiding light in the dark

    • Wisdom

      • Godly Wisdom

      • Understanding

      • Discernment

        • Specifically in discerning Jehovah's will

      • Insight

      • Perspective

    • Endurance / Patience

    • Humility, and Faith/Trust/Confidence in Jehovah

• Anthony Griffin: Be Energized by God (Phil. 2:13)

  Phil 2:13 - For God is the one who for the sake of his good pleasure energizes you, giving you both the desire and the power to act.

  Jehovah gives us the desire to act in accordance with his will

  This includes to serve him, to make good decisions, to resist temptation, to face a trial, etc.

  Further, he "for the sake of his good pleasure", energizes us. He wants to. He enjoys giving us power to do things, despite our circumstances.

  How so? The Greek verb translates to "acting within you". Jehovah can enhance our own abilities, and motivation, with his holy spirit

  He can, in effect, cause us to become, whatever we need to become, to accomplish his will.

  2 Corinthians 12:8-10 - Jehovah didn't take the problem away, but he instead gave Paul the required strength to deal with it. Paul concluded with "For when I am weak, then I am powerful."

  2 Samuel 4:4 - Mephibosheth became crippled by an accident. In later chapters, David shows loving kindness to him, and allows him to eat at the kings table, always being taken care of. He was still crippled, but Jehovah took care of him.

  1 Samuel 1:6,10,18 - The example of Hannah. Hannah was extremely bitter and wept uncontrollably. Hannah prayed to Jehovah, transferred the weight of her burden from herself to Jehovah, and went in peace. Jehovah didn't get rid of Peninnah (the rival wife), but he gave Hannah the strength to keep going.

  Be confident that Jehovah will sustain us, will energize us, and will act within us with his holy spirit. It is his good pleasure to give us the desire and power to act, within our circumstances.

• Ronald Curzan: Jehovah Helps Us to Overcome Giantlike Challenges (Mark 1:11)

  When facing monumental tasks, or assignements, we need to ask ourselves "What helped me succeed in the past?"

  Jehovah, thats the one we can rely on. Jesus relied heavily on Jehovah, and Jehovah provided his support gladly.

  We can also support others, and do whatever we can to help them.

  its very important to put our feelings of appreciation into words, and let others know that we care for them. Our brothers and sisters need to hear reassuring words.

  If you see something commendable, say something commendable. Its a very cheap thing to do, but has the potentional to make a world of impact.

  Just because we've done somethign once, doesn't neccesarily mean we can do it again on our own.

  2 Samuel 21:15 - Once again there was war between the Phi·lisʹtines and Israel.+ So David and his servants went down and fought the Phi·lisʹtines, but David became exhausted.

  David, the giant slayer, who had done all these things before, became exhausted. He wasn't discouraged, but just lost his strength.

  David was still saved by his men, by those watching over him.

  Giants are scary, but they are nothing to Jehovah. They are no match to Jehovah's loyal servants, who are backed by Jehovah.

  We have Jehovah's love, his approval, and his support. We also have the support of his loyal worshipers.

  We can also be the one looking out for others, by showing our concern for others, be it a quick word, call or, text, but still showing our concern, and also our appreciation for them.

• Pioneer Meeting with Circuit

  308 count at 10:30

  Part 2

  Phil 2:13 - For God is the one who for the sake of his good pleasure energizes you, giving you both the desire and the power to act.

  This is what happens when we work in tandem with gods will.

  Jehovah knows every bit of who we are. He knows us better then we know ourselves. He knows what we want, he knows our fears, he knows our capabilities, all of it. He can fill in our shortcomings easily, and make what needs to happen, happen.

  Jehovah gives us strength and desire to do whatever he wants us to do. We are inadequate alone, but not with Jehovah's help.

  Bible study focus

  Part 3

  1 John 5:14,15- And this is the confidence that we have toward him, that no matter what we ask according to his will, he hears us. 15 And if we know that he hears us concerning whatever we are asking, we know that we are to have the things we ask for, since we have asked them of him.

  cultivate desire to get a Bible study. Pray about it

  Mark 11:24 - This is why I tell you, all the things you pray and ask for, have faith that you have received them, and you will have them

  act in harmony with our prayers

  Psalms 65:2 - O Hearer of prayer, to you people of all sorts will come

  Hearer of prayer is Jehovah

  Matt 7: 7-11 - “Keep on asking, and it will be given you;+ keep on seeking, and you will find; keep on knocking, and it will be opened to you;+ 8 for everyone asking receives,+ and everyone seeking finds, and to everyone knocking, it will be opened. 9 Indeed, which one of you, if his son asks for bread, will hand him a stone? 10 Or if he asks for a fish, he will not hand him a serpent, will he? 11 Therefore, if you, although being wicked, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more so will your Father who is in the heavens give good things+ to those asking him!+

  we know this one well, yea?

  Colossians 4:2 - Persevere in prayer,+ remaining awake in it with thanksgiving.

  Part 4

  Ecc 11:6 - Sow your seed in the morning and do not let your hand rest until the evening;+ for you do not know which will have success, whether this one or that one, or whether they will both do well.

  focus on work, and let Jehovah worry about the results. It's a matter of eventuality, not success

  Part 5

  ~360 total pioneer

  Matt 16:22,23 - At this Peter took him aside and began to rebuke him, saying: “Be kind to yourself, Lord; you will not have this happen to you at all.”+ 23 But turning his back,* he said to Peter: “Get behind me, Satan! You are a stumbling block to me, because you think, not God’s thoughts, but those of men.”

  Peter thought there was a limit to what could be sacrificed for the kingdom, but Jesus said "lol no"

  Jehovah will take care of us if we reach out, especially beyond our comfort zone.

  1 Peter 2:20,21 - For what merit is there if you are beaten for sinning and you endure it?+ But if you endure suffering because of doing good, this is an agreeable thing to God.+ 21 In fact, to this course you were called, because even Christ suffered for you,+ leaving a model for you to follow his steps closely.

  Endure suffering for what is good

  Part 6

  Do things Jehovah's way, and it'll work out very well, because we have his blessing

  Isa 26:12 - O Jehovah, you will grant us peace, Because everything we have done You have accomplished for us.

• The woman who fears Jehovah will be praised

  • Communication is key

  • Constantly together, and do everything together

  • Sharing of the load of various daily tasks

  • Known as a partnership, and a team

  • Prov 31:26 - She opens her mouth in wisdom; The law of kindness is on her tongue

    • Promotes a loving atmosphere both at home and in the congregation

    • Actually just the entire chapter is worth reviewing

  • In prayers with your family, make specific family centric requests, and make sure they know you are turning to Jehovah for important things you are concerned about.

• Trust in Jehovah With All Your Heart:

  Centered around the importance of trusting in Jehovah (JH), especially in the face of future trials like the attack of Gog of Magog, where there will be no human escape. The speaker uses the example of a brother who suffered in a concentration camp and witnessed his brother's execution but still repeatedly affirmed, "Brothers Trust In Jehovah With All Your Hearts," even with dementia.

  Emphasized that trust is more than a feeling; it requires conscious, reasoned decisions and acting in accordance with JH's way, not our own understanding. The examples of Daniel in the lions' pit and his companions in the fiery furnace illustrate this point. In both cases, JH allowed them to face extreme danger with no human way out, and their unwavering trust, prioritizing their worship over their lives, led to divine intervention. The lesson is to not rely on our own understanding but to put our lives in JH's hands.

  Also side note, Jehovah waited until past the last second (at least in human perspective) to help, because then everyone knew it was Jehovah who saved them. He has a habit of helping right when he needs to, and not when we think he needs to. Just because help doesn't appear to be coming, remember we know nothing. Our only job is to fully commit our faith and trust in Jehovah, until death if need be, and let him worry about the rest.

  Love is the desire to make someone happy. Who do we want to make happy today?

  Nothing will happen if we skip a meeting, or don't have a part in the field ministry, but those who are spiritually strong will be, well, strong during the end as well. Put in the work of strengthening your relationship with Jehovah, and you will benefit. Study like you mean it, and not "speed study"

  To remain determined to trust JH during the Great Tribulation, two key actions are highlighted:

  1. Giving spiritual activities priority ALWAYS: This includes consistent meeting attendance and participation in the ministry. Neglecting these in good times can weaken our faith and trust, making it harder to endure difficult times. Spiritual activity builds strength and conviction, as proven by the experiences of those who have endured persecution.

  2. Deepening our trust in JH: This is achieved by becoming more familiar with him through personal Bible study. This study should be in-depth, involving planning, reading scriptures, and meditating on them to build a strong foundation like a house built on rock (Luke 6:48). Meditation involves seeing yourself in the biblical accounts and applying the lessons to your own life. Utilizing tools like JW Library can aid in this deeper study.

  Emphasize the importance of applying what we learn to "taste and see that JH is Good" (Luke 6:47). This practical application, rather than just theoretical knowledge, deepens our trust. Young ones are encouraged to serve JH actively and set spiritual goals to experience the joy and benefits of trusting in him. Elders are commended for training younger ones and recommending qualified individuals for further responsibility.

  JH's guidance is always for our good and should not remain theoretical. By applying it and making decisions based on trust, we will have experiences that deepen our faith. The reward for fully trusting in JH is the promise of blessings beyond our imagination (Ephesians 3:20), exemplified by the wonders of the promised new world.

  How will we be rewarded?

  Eph 3:20- JH can answer our prayers anything beyond what we can ever imagine 

  20 Now to the one who can, according to his power that is operating in us,+ do more than superabundantly beyond all the things we ask or conceive,+

  JH can do more than superabundantly what we could have ever imagine or think of. The same for the new world, we can imagine what it will be like. Our house,not getting sick, those resurrected, it will be amazing but JH will do more than Superabundantly what we could even conceive

  Would you like to see this, THEN KEEP FULLY TRUSTING IN JH

• Do You Know the Mind of JH?

  The speaker emphasizes the importance of knowing Jehovah's (JH's) mind, drawing from 1 Corinthians 2:16 as the theme scripture, stating that we can understand JH's mind by studying Christ, who is his image. By understanding Jesus' thinking and attitude, we can adopt the "Christ's mind," which reflects JH's thoughts.

  Our thinking is often shaped by heredity, education, and social interactions, but learning about JH should transform our thinking, moving us away from being molded by the world's system (Romans 12:2) and into JH's mold. This transformation is gradual, prompting the question: To what extent have I patterned my thinking after JH's?

  The talk explores how to discern JH's mind through:

  1. God's Word (the Bible): By examining accounts and adjusting our perspective from a human one to JH's. The examples of the unnamed Israelite who broke the Sabbath law and David's serious sins highlight that JH's justice is not always how imperfect humans might expect. JH sees the heart (1 Samuel 16:7) and doesn't always reveal all his reasons.

  2. God's Son (Jesus Christ): Jesus' 3 1/2-year ministry showed the contrast between JH's mind and the rigid, extreme interpretations of the religious leaders (Matthew 12:1-7 regarding the Sabbath and the account of David eating the loaves of presentation). The example of the woman with the flow of blood (Luke 8:42-48) illustrates JH's emphasis on mercy and faith over strict adherence to rules when the heart's motive is pure (Matthew 23:23).

  This is what the love of god means, that we observe his commandments.

  The speaker then discusses how to show our thinking is in line with JH's:

  1. Living by principles, not just rules: While the Mosaic Law had many rules, the greatest commandments are based on love (love for JH and neighbor). We should diligently study the Bible to understand JH's thinking through principles and accounts, not going beyond what is written (1 Corinthians 4:6) like the Pharisees. Mature ones develop discernment (Hebrews 5:14) and don't need elders to make every decision for them.

  2. Valuing ourselves and others as JH does: JH values us based on our heart (1 Kings 8:39), not our position or privileges in the organization. This is comforting for those who can't do as much as they once did. The examples of Brother Heard, Brother Jackson, and the branch committee brother stepping down illustrate that personal worth is measured by our whole-souled love for JH (like the slaves in the parable of the talents and the widow's small contribution).

  Elder stepped down to care for his wife, he stopped pioneering. He was offered the reduced hours to keep pioneering, but still decided to step down, because he still felt he would be obligated to attempt to make his time. He wanted to spend that time supporting his wife. Did his worth decrease in Jehovah's eyes because of this choice, or this "loss of privilege?" No, of course not. Therefore, assignments and privileges do not define our value to Jehovah, whats in our hearts does.

  The entire heb scriptures are based on love. Jh doesn’t make rules, some laws and MANY principles and accounts that show his thinking. And we have Jesus to know Jh’s mind. We need to diligently study the bible

  1 Cor 4:6 do not go beyond the things written

  The talk concludes with encouraging reports from Japan (growth in publishers and the zealous pioneer spirit - Psalm 110:3), the importance of parents helping their children, and commendation for elders training younger ones. Ultimately, the most important assignment from JH's viewpoint is to be his faithful witness, and reflecting on his precious thoughts (Psalm 139:17) is vital.

• Gilead Graduation 2025 (June Monthly Broadcast) - Special Note

  Stay Hungry

  Matt 5:3 - Happy are those concious of their spiritual need since the kingdom of the heavens belong to them

  Stay hungry for spiritual food

  John 6:11 - Jehovah provided for their food, and they had as much as they wanted. Jehovah will provide for spiritual hunger.

  We contine to eat our favorite meals, same spiritually. We can continue to feed on things we've looked at in the past. Acts as reviews, driving in the nail.

  Matthew 5:36 - Keep hungering for righteousness.

  Spiritual hunger and thirst for righteousness will be fully satisfied in the new world, so keep in expectation of it.

  Inside Story

  Interviews from people graduating

  ​Maybe we'll be up there soon, eh 'nis?

  The desirable thing in a man is...

  Loyal Love.

  Defined as love motivated by commitment, integrity, loyalty, and deep attachment.

  It is kindness that lovingly attaches itself to persons, becoming evident in continual kind actions"

  How god treated his true worshipers through the ages. Jehovah stuck with his people through the good times, and through the very bad.

  Jer 31:3 - "I have loved you with an everlasting love. That is why I have drawn you to me with loyal love."

  We live in expectation of Jehovah's loyal love, always relying on it, in good times, and in very difficult times, that is manifested in his continual kind acts toward us.

  Prov 3:3 - 3 Do not let loyal love and faithfulness leave you. Tie them around your neck; Write them on the tablet of your heart;

  We are expected by Jehovah to display loyal love.

  We do this by attaching ourselves to others with continual, enduring, steadfast acts of kindness that demonstrate our loyal love.

  We should think of the loyal love that has been shown us that got us to this point. Both from Jehovah, and the many people that helped us get where we currently are.

  If serving as an overseer, always demonstrate loyal love to the brothers and sisters we care for

  Abraham was asking about Sodom and Gomorrah "What if there's 50? 45? 30? 20? 10?". He was annoying. Some of our brothers and sisters are annoying. What did Jehovah do to Abraham for being annoying? He loved him, and called him his friend. We should do the same.

  Peter was also very annoying. Jesus still gave him great responsibility, and gave him the keys of the kingdom.

  As overseers, we will work with annoying people. What do we do with them? We love them.

  To show loyal love, it takes time, it takes emotional energy.

  Zech 7:9 - 9 “This is what Jehovah of armies says, ‘Judge with true justice, and deal with one another in loyal love and mercy.

  Prov 18:22 - 22 The desirable thing in a man is his loyal love; And it is better to be poor than to be a liar.

  Stay Thrist

  Ps 143:5,6 - 5 I remember the days of old; I meditate on all your activity; I eagerly ponder over the work of your hands. 6 I spread out my hands to you; I am like a parched land that thirsts for you. (Selah)

  Water lakes the land revive, and flourish.

  We need Jehovah and Spiritual food to keep reviving ourselves, and letting us flourish in our assignments

  We will be very busy with assignments, and spiritual activities, but do not forget to come and fill up on spiritual water, personal study, and prayer.

• Notes on Patience & Endurance

  The original rendering of the Hebrew word "patience" is "long suffering". Literally, suffering that is long. I feel this is a pretty apt description. This world, mostly due to electronics and the instantaneousness of it all, excels at murdering our patience.

  The instant results we get from this technology have in turn increased our appetite for instant gratification in other aspects of our lives. - Awake! Dec 2012

  As referenced before in our other notes, we have 100% been affected by this, without even realizing it, and the situation with Reina brought it, painfully, into focus. I've always known patience was a lacking quality of mine, but now it is being tested more then I ever would have imagined. But, that's growth, right? The following are my findings about patience.

  The greatest example we have of patience, is Jehovah himself. Jehovah had a special, chosen people. He loved his people dearly. They promised him that they would never stray from his statutes, and always obey his commandments. These people were the Israelites, and this did not happen. What did Jehovah do? He sent them prophets, time and time again, over the course of hundreds of years. He warned them, he begged them to go back to doing what was right, he wanted nothing more then their well being. What was their response?

  2 Kings 17:14 - But they did not listen, and they remained just as stubborn as their forefathers who had not shown faith in Jehovah their God.

  On top of that, they often killed the prophets that Jehovah sent, ultimately crossing the line when they killed Jehovah's first born, Jesus. The point of all this, is Jehovah showed extreme patience to his people. Why? Because he loved them. His love for his people, his special, chosen people, motivated him to keep showing them patience, and keep showing them love.

  The parallels for us? First reference the Special Note in the Gilead Graduation right above this note, and then reference Smithy's Notes.

    - Chat with Smithy 
  
        After my shepherding visit, and doing some research specifically into what she is going through, I realized my errors. In my heartache I had become entirely results focused. I needed to shift back to "what can I reasonably do? What do I need to get straightened out with my own self regardless of her and what she does?"
  
        This thinking reminded me of the control that I do have. I remembered and contemplated that I can set myself up for success or, at the very least, reduced grief, by doing what you guys had all been telling me: what I can. I also meditated on the fact that Jehovah never abandons and that he helps deal with these feelings, even if we don't get the results we sought.
  
        I started hearing her more for what she was actually trying to say, rather than letting my hurt translate it for me.
  
        I channeled the truest form of "it is what it is."
  
        Adapt. Grow. Audit.
  
        I've always had this strange fear that if I don't directly fight for the love I want, it would never be given to me. This is a trauma thing. Unfortunately this does not comply with the Bible's definition of love. I can't make her love me. I must focus on the real form of love, that doesn't look for it's own interest.
  
        Incidentally I'll tell you the results of some meditation on love I did a while back. 
  
        The Bible says that love never fails. But how is this possible? After all, you can love your wife and she still leave you. You can love you children and they still go down a path that ultimately leads to pain and regret. You can work with a spiritual brother or sister and they still not heed your counsel. So in what way does love never fail? It is in the definition.
  
        'Love doesn't look for it's own interests." True love has absolutely nothing to do with results or what you get in return for the investment. That's not to say that any form of self interest is "unloving." We get hungry, we eat. We get hot or cold, we adjust accordingly. We take care of ourselves, and this is good and balanced. 
  
        Love, though, is 100% focused on someone else. If you kiss your mate on the cheek hoping that they'll kiss you back, is that love? It depends. Were you happy to kiss them regardless? Was your main purpose an expression of affection and you only hoped for a return because it would be a nice moment for the two of you? Or were you really just wishing they would show you affection and using the kiss to try to fish for it? Both look the same on the surface. One is motivated by love; the other by a desire to be loved.
  
        So if we think about 'doesn't look for it's own interest' as a definition, rather than as a principle or law, it becomes more clear. 
  
        Your message to her was partly to make her smile, and partly a prudent thing to do. She is now more aware where you are; that there's someone interested in her that she knows. Some people may have written off a relationship due to the distance and uncertain variables at play. In these circumstances, I wouldn't be surprised for someone to elect to ghost.  But you have taken steps to be communicative, and she hasn't said or done anything to stop you. Honestly it is on her to say something at this point. If her feels are there at all, she'll want to respond. Idk why she wouldn't. Not saying there's literally no reason, but this gets into the next part of the sermon.
  
        Investigating a person as a potential mate isn't inherently a loving thing. The trick with love is, just because something isn't loving doesn't mean it isn't good. When you investigate a potential mate you are looking at facts about that person, and comparing them with facts about yourself. Honestly its a pretty boring and logical process, if you keep your treacherous heart in check. The thing about love is that it is kind of like feeding a scared animal you found. You lay out the food, and at first you have to back away and see what they do, cuz they won't get close to you yet... if they're smart. Don't trust the ones that get too close too fast. May make you feel good at first, but if they don't have healthy boundaries and self care, that's a red flag. Even if you hit it off really really well, there should be some brakes here and there that remind you both that you're taking this seriously and haven't already secretly decided to marry.
  
        Leaving the food in this illustration is the love. According to one of our publications "love demonstrates itself in actions that are pleasing the one that is loved." We may hope for certain outcomes, but the expression is issued regardless.  Being disappointed or let down by not getting what we were hoping for doesn't mean that we didn't demonstrate love.
  
        Once the love has been placed, the wise and mature person will allow the other person to interact with it as they please. Does she text you back? Does she allow business to become an excuse not to? If so, why? Does she want to take forever, leaving you anxious, because she really wants to think about it? Not horrible, but something would be nice. 
  
        Here's the crux of it, though. Love has nothing to do with how the other person acts. You set it out with their best interest in mind. It can't fail because they ignore it or don't listen or whatever the case may be. You expressed something in a loving way. Love has auto success. Whatever she does with it doesn't affect that. 
  
        Now, if the feelings aren't mutual, and she doesn't like the contact, that was still is love on your part. She would need to communicate her feelings more clearly. Intention is a key factor. You had the best intentions: you were looking for her interests, rather than stewing on feelings and uncertainty while she remained clueless.
  
        Again, you can think of how Jehovah demonstrated love to Israel by sending His prophets. The people didn't listen to the prophets, and we see how that went (Israel is freaking crazy these days). But it would be inaccurate to say that Jehovah's love failed because the people weren't saved. The people didn't even feel loved by the action! It was a nuisance to them to deal with Jehovah's expressions of love because the prophets told them things they needed to do better and differently. 
  
        The act of love stands alone. Anything after that is something else. So did the love fail the Israelites? No. Jehovah's love behaved as His words defines: 'patient, kind, not jealous, etc.' So what can we say about the outcome of love, then? If the results aren't what we want, how can we still say it succeeded? Because that
  

's literally just the definition of love. It is a given thing. What failed here was the people's faith. Their love didn't fail. They just didn't have love. Yes Jehovah was hoping they would turn around. Hoping for an outcome doesn't cross the line of 'not looking for your own interest' all the time.

        So whenever it is that love doesn't produce the results you are hoping for, zoom out and look at the other qualities at play. Just because something isn't love doesn't mean it is unloving. You wanted to make her smile; you sent a positive message to her. That's loving. You would appreciate a response of some sort. That is your own self interest, but not at all unloving. It is perfectly rational and reasonable. Just not definable as 'love'. I hope this makes sense. 

        I've been having to remind myself of this a loooooooot lately. I get so wrapped up wanting to be loved and cherished by my wife that I lost sight of these principles. Instead, I am now trying to focus on my expressions of love, regardless of what she does. Even if she leaves, or doesn't accept my love, that doesn't mean it failed. Love goes out from us, and that is success. If it is rejected, that is some quality on their end and does not change your expression or its value.

        Good stuff! And just to round out that thought, love "believes all things" for example. That doesn't mean we are naive. "Hopes all things" doesn't mean we never accept loss or failure. It just means that, by definition, it is love when you choose to believe the best about someone. It is no longer definable as love if you stop believing them. But that isn't automatically unloving. Maybe you have a good reason to doubt. Could be wisdom, or evidence or any other valid thing. To me, part of the purpose of chapter 13 is to help us understand what love is AND isn't, but not to say that it is the only important quality.

        Particularly about Reina:

        Based on the way she has interacted, personally, I would leave the ball in her court, too.

        But as you helped remind me, we can only do what we can do. Seeing the good we do regardless of results is a good.



Beginning to get the pictures? Jehovah's love motivated him to keep hoping in and believing that his people would turn around, and do what is right. Our love for Reina, should motivate us to keep hoping in and believing that she'll give us the time of day. Granted similarities of the two parallels end there, and Reina not giving us the time of day certainly is not a grave sin by any definition of the word. But, the exact same type of kind, unselfish, loyal love being shown by Jehovah, is what you are showing Reina. So, how the heck are we supposed to endure and find patience? By loving Reina, which we already are. Continue showing the selfless, loyal love towards her, in exercising patience. That is what we can do right now, and show a waiting attitude for Jehovah, as he knows what needs to happen, when it needs to happen. Not everyone gets an opportunity to move across the world in an attempt to chase the one they love, yea? Jehovah's not abandoning this, and doesn't want you to either. Love him, Love her, and endure.

EDIT: A couple futher very brief notes:

- When dealing with people especially, effort can not take the place of time. Often, time *and* effort are required, and more of one can not take the place of the other. 

- This Watchtower Article for Patience - [https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&docid=2013844](https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&docid=2013844)

- And this one for Endurance - [https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&docid=2016282](https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&docid=2016282)

> [James 1:4](https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&bible=59001004&pub=nwtsty) - Let endurance complete its work, so that you may be complete and sound in all respects, not lacking in anything.

Our endurance serves a purpose. The WT article said "Trials often reveal our weaknesses, aspects of our personality that we need to refine. If we endure those trials, however, our Christian personality becomes more complete, or sound. For example, we may become more patient, appreciative, and compassionate." Do you not think we have changed significantly, for the better, because of our endurance? We are leagues better then we were before. The changes we have made in the past 6 months, honestly feel like more then we've made in the past 10 years. That's pretty impressive, I think.

The WT Article also defines endurance as this: 

> Endurance is “the spirit which can bear things, not simply with resignation, but with **blazing hope**,” says one reference work. “It is the quality which keeps a man on his feet with his face to the wind. It is the virtue which can transmute the hardest trial into glory because beyond the pain it sees the goal.”

> [Romans 15:5](https://www.jw.org/finder?srcid=jwlshare&wtlocale=E&prefer=lang&bible=45015005&pub=nwtsty) - Now may the God who supplies endurance and comfort grant you to have among yourselves the same mental attitude that Christ Jesus had,

Endurance comes from Jehovah. We have to ask for it. Jehovah provides the hope for these things. Meditate on the support we have recieved from Jehovah pertaining to Reina. The whole college thing, the impossibly timed music selections, the words and advice from others. You will have your second chance. Make the best of it. 

• Evidence of Jehovah's Love for us

  These will not include the things Jehovah has done for humans in general, or for his people in general, as there is simply to many to count, unless they have a special, individual significance to us.

  • The fact that we have a 4 year college degree, obtained in a single month, that grants us a ticket to live exactly where Reina plans on ending up.

  • The fact that when we are looking for something, when we need encouragement, its always there, ready to be consumed, or a word ready to be heard.

  • The confirmation through music that we keep getting. It'd be a cooincidence if it happened once. It'd be wierd if it happend twice. Its unignorable now that its happened 3x. We asked for assurance, and we have received it.

• Paul Gillies: The Power of Holy Spirit (Acts 1:8)

  The global preaching work is only possible through Jehovah's holy spirit.

  How does that spirit affect us individually, and make us able to do this work?

  • Jehovah can use his sprit to bring whatever skills we already possess, to a much higher degree.

  • Jesus, through holy spirit, has a tremendous amount of power. He can see, and scrutinize every single person on the planet, and judge them perfectly and righteously. Then, he will use that same power in Armageddon to destroy the wicked, without a single causality among those he deemed as righteous.

  • Jehovah is giving us that same power (not in the same amounts, obviously) to accomplish the ministry, and do whatever else he needs us to do. Even in small amounts, Jehovah's spirit is potent.

  Example: Bezalel and Oholiab, the two craftsman that worked on the tabernacle. Jehovah used his spirit to take whatever skills they already possessed, and made them into master craftsman like the world had and since then has never seen.

  • The tabernacle existed for ~500 years, while constantly being moved. This stands as a testament to their ability and craftsmanship, granted by Jehovah.

  When Jehovah gives us holy spirit, we grow in wisdom, understanding, and knowledge. It enhances our natural skills and abilities, taking them to another level.

  Bezalel and Oholiab didn't initial their work, they were humble and knew where the ability came from. They also were instructed, and faithfully did so, to instruct others on these things, so there was an entire team of uncredited craftsman that made these things.

  Today, if we are blessed with holy spirit in one way or another, we must realize where that power comes form, and not stir up any sort of competition.

  When we develop skills, we enjoy deep satisfaction, knowing that Jehovah's power is a part of our lives, and giving us the power to perform various assignments. But at the same time, we must be quick to acknowledge that that power is not our own, and it is only through Jehovah that we are able to accomplish these things.

  Side Notes: I think of this pertaining to my past 6 months. We went from nothing, to possessing a Bachelors Degree in Education, a TESOL certification, understanding more Japanese then we ever have, appointed as an elder, and not to mention dodging bullets left and right. All of this honestly in the past 3 months. There is no possible way anyone, especially ourselves, could have accomplished this work on our own power. We have been blessed with Jehovah's holy spirit, and we must make sure that all credit for such goes to him, as this is not our own ability in the slightest.

• William Turner, Jr.: Do Not Become Complacent Like Solomon (1 Ki. 11:9, 10)

  Jehovah became furious at Solomon, because Jehovah warned him twice not to go after other Gods, and he still did it.

  Why was Jehovah furious with Solomon?

  • Because Jehovah warned Solomon, not once, but twice.

  • After Jehovah gave him this warning, he even gave Solomon a path forward, to "keep walking in Jehovah's ways", and he would be successful.

  Solomon did this at times in his life, and was blessed for those times, but he was not consistent.

  Jehovah can bring matters to our attention any number of ways. Meetings, comments, sometimes direct counsel. Are we listening? What is our response? The way we respond, will affect how Jehovah feels about us.

  Jehovah appeared to Solomon twice. The second time, he restated what he did the first time, but also added a warning, saying that if Solomon and Isreal did not follow true worship, he would be cut off. This was 20 years after the first time Jehovah appeared to him.

  Do you think Solmon reflected on his past? Reflected on what made David, his father, so special to Jehovah? More importantly, do you think Solomon thought why Jehovah brought this to his attention twice? You know, like a double confirmation? Solomon became complacent in his worship, taking one false step after another.

  Solomon eventually married 700 wives, many of them pagan, and 300 concubines. He set up high places for false worship, and when it was all said and done, had shown a gross disregard for Jehovah's standards and worship. Can we see why Jehovah was furious with Solomon?

  In light of this example, it should help us not to be complacent in our worship. Solomons mistake were not a casual mistake, but were a progressive sinking into disobedience.

  We need to be sensitive to Jehovah's Direction. Sensitive to Jehovah's reminders. Look for ways that we can make practical application of what he says in our lives.

  This account also demonstrates Jehovah's love and mercy. We all make mistakes from time to time, often disappointing, or even angering him. However, Anger is not a dominant quality of Jehovah. Jehovah is a "Happy God", "Slow to anger, and abundant in loving kindness."

  When he sees us putting forth the effort to serve him, how do you think that makes him feel? We as imperfect humans can do, say, and be things that affect how the strongest entity in existence feels. For good, and for bad. Lets make sure they are good, yea?

• Troy Snyder: Our Role in Sanctifying Jehovah’s Name (Matt. 6:9)

  Matt 6:9 - 9 “You must pray, then, this way: “‘Our Father in the heavens, let your name be sanctified.

  This means that we have a role in sanctifying Jehovah's name.

  Isa 29:23 - 23 For when he sees his children, Who are the work of my hands, in his midst, They will sanctify my name; Yes, they will sanctify the Holy One of Jacob, And they will stand in awe of the God of Israel.

  We have the privelge of sanctifying Jehovah's name, or to defend his reputation.

  We do this in the ministry, by telling people about his qualities, prove the lies satan has told about him as false

  Also do this by imitating his qualities, which affects our conduct, our speech, and what we look like.

  Uniquely, because we know Jehovah, becuase we have a relationship with him, and becuase we "stand in awe" of him, we are qualified to defend him.

  These words can also help us to not give up in our service to Jehovah.

  Matt 6:1 - “Take care not to practice your righteousness in front of men to be noticed by them; otherwise you will have no reward with your Father who is in the heavens. "

  Focusing on our name, or making ourselves prominent, focusing on how we look and appear to others is treating our name like its most important, and that is not correct.

  Matt 6:9 - 9 “You must pray, then, this way: “‘Our Father in the heavens, let your name be sanctified.

  Our priority should instead be on Jehovah's name. Happiness does not come from seeking prominence for ourselves, but by giving priority to Jehovah's name.

  When we get discouraged, or frustrated in our service to Jehovah, when we remember what's most important, the sanctification of Jehovah's name, it helps us keep things in perspective. it helps us keep our feelings and our emotions in the proper place.

  These words also remind us that Jehovah wants us to draw close to him. Jehovah is the source of comfort and refreshment.

  Jehovah is holy, sacred, and clean, and that holiness may seem daunting to us as imperfect humans. But, that holiness is connected with refreshment. It is connected with everything that is good.

  When we meditate on Jehovah's holiness, it draws us to him. We don't want to think Jehovah is unapproachable, in fact the opposite is true.

  Psalms 103:1 - Let me praise Jehovah; Let everything within me praise his holy name.

  Psalms 103: 13,14 - As a father shows mercy to his sons, Jehovah has shown mercy to those who fear him. 14 For he well knows how we are formed, Remembering that we are dust.

  Jehovah's holiness reminds us of his mercy and compassion for us. it is as if Jehovah is saying "I know you've made mistakes, I know you're imperfect, but I understand you. Whenever you feel you can't approach me, or you're overwhelmed with negative emotions, come to me". That's a direct quote btw

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• Ralph Walls: Speech That Builds Up (Mal. 3:16-18)

  Mal 3:16 - 16 At that time those who fear Jehovah spoke with one another, each one with his companion, and Jehovah kept paying attention and listening. And a book of remembrance was written before him for those fearing Jehovah and for those meditating on his name.

  Jehovah is paying attention and listening to how we speak with one another. Why? Because our speech reflects what is in our hearts. What we say reflects what we really are inside.

  We are very good at finding others shortcomings, but it takes a lot more effort to find the good of the other person. We have to be careful in how we talk to, and about each other.

  We need to see people the way Jehovah sees them. Every single one of Jehovah's people have been drawn by him, in spite of their quirks and challenging personalities. That includes us.

  Jehovah sees positive things in every one of us, and we need to put forth the effort to see those good qualities that Jehovah sees, so we can speak positively about them.

  James 1:26 - 26 If any man thinks he is a worshipper of God but does not keep a tight rein on his tongue, he is deceiving his own heart, and his worship is futile.

  How we use our toungue is a very serious matter to Jehovah. I we talk one way at meetings and in the ministry, but spoke harshly at other times, Jehovah would not be pleased with that.

  Mal 3:17 - “And they will be mine,” says Jehovah of armies, “in the day when I produce a special property. I will show them compassion, just as a man shows compassion to his son who serves him.

  Jehovah says about those who watch their speech "they will be mine". Parents have a special bond with their children, and overlook many things (or, you know, they should).

  Jehovah has a special attachment to his servants, even more so then earthly parents do with their children. They are his, and the verse states he will show them compassion.

  Our speech should reflect this view of Jehovah showing compassion to humans and overlooking our shortcomings, even though we are imperfect, and keeping in mind that we are included in this showing of compassion.

  Mal 3:18 - 18 And you will again see the distinction between a righteous person and a wicked person, between one serving God and one not serving him.”

  Our effort to have upbuilding speeches is what sets us apart as Jehovah's people.

  This is Jehovah's way of commending his people for putting forth every effort to have positive, upbuilding speech. Its good for all of us to keep that mind, and also to make a self-evaluation from time to time.

  If we have a measure of authority, be it in the congregation, secularly, or anywhere else, we need to be especially aware how we talk to, and about our fellow workers.

  The world we live in has bullying, curt speech, cutting people off, and overall mistreatment of each other as common practice. This stands in stark contrast to what Jehovah expects of his people. We need to make very sure that the standards of speech prevalent today, does not rub off on us.

  1 Cor 2:12 - 12 Now we received, not the spirit of the world, but the spirit that is from God, so that we might know the things that have been kindly given us by God.

  Heb 2:1-3 - That is why it is necessary for us to pay more than the usual attention to the things we have heard, so that we never drift away.2 For if the word spoken through angels proved to be sure, and every transgression and disobedient act received a punishment in harmony with justice,3 how will we escape if we have neglected so great a salvation? For it began to be spoken through our Lord and was verified for us by those who heard him

  May we continue to speak in such a way that draws attention to Jehovahs way of dealing with people, and draws us ever close to him and to each other.

• Kenneth Godburn: See Jehovah’s Glory Every Morning

  July 3, 2025

  Success in our assignments will depend on us continuing to see Jehovah's glory every day. How so?

  Exodus 16:7 - 7 In the morning you will see Jehovah’s glory, for he has heard your murmurings against Jehovah. Who are we that you should murmur against us?”

  They would see Jehovah's glory in the arrangement of the Mana, every morning.

  This demonstrated Jehovah's glory because the mana was provided miraculously. It showed up every day except the 7th day, didn't depend on what time of year it was, didn't matter where you were, it was always there, and right on time. They had to put in the work to gather it, but this also wasn't food that they could produce on their own.

  It also demonstrated Jehovah's glory in what the mana accomplished. It fed the Israelites for 40 years, and everybody got the same amount, didn't have to ration it, they got exactly what they needed.

  To benefit from this provision, the Israelites needed to recognize that Jehovah knew how to feed them, knew what to feed them, and most importantly that it was Jehovah that was feeding them.

  We can learn many lessons today from how Jehovah fed the Israelites.

  How Jehovah provides spiritual food is evidence of his power

  Case in point: The bible. It's very survival is evidence that Jehovah is behind it.

  The slave has been providing spiritual food for Jehovah's people since 1919, and it always comes at the right time. Virtually all of Jehovah's people will receive the same spiritual food, at the same time, in their own language, free of charge. We're so used to it, but that in itself is a miracle and evidence of Jehovah's Glory.

  What this spiritual food accomplishes is also evidence of Jehovah's Glory.

  This spiritual food is satisfying the needs of over 9million people in different lands, of different circumstances, different ages, cultures, whatever

  With what result? We are gathered together in a loving, united brotherhood, all focused on the preaching the good news of God's Kingdom.

  What accounts for this?

  There is nothing on this planet that compares to our united brotherhood. This is the result, not of human effort, but of a miracle from Jehovah, and evidence of his power & glory.

  We know all this, but the example of the mana and the Israelites lack of appreciation for it show how important it is to take time every day to focus on Jehovah's Glory.

  How can we do that?

  • Recognize that Jehovah knows how to feed us spiritually. Do our best to keep the same best routine that Jehovah's people follow. Bible reading, Family Worship, Meetings, reading the WT, watching broadcasts, service, etc. Like mana, those basic provisions are for everyone, no matter in what capacity we serve. Keeping this routine will make sure that our spiritualty keeps pace with whatever assignments (or ambitions) we may have.

  • Recognize that Jehovah knows what to feed us spiritually. Sometimes things may not apply to us, or may be rather simple, but we need to be sure we don't question, or worry about if what Jehovah is providing can sustain us. Jehovah knew what to feed the Israelites, and Jehovah knows what to feed his people today.

    The spiritual food Jehovah gives us is with the intent to put his word in our hearts.

    1 John 2:14 - 14 I write you, fathers, because you have come to know him who is from the beginning. I write you, young men, because you are strong and the word of God remains in you and you have conquered the wicked one.

    Conquering the wicked one was not due to their own willpower. It was the result of God's power, his word in their hearts. This is exactly what Jehovah is doing for his people today.

  • Always recognize that is Jehovah that is feeding you. The reason all this is happening, is because of Jehovah. He is the source of the spiritual food. He is the source of every good gift. Give credit to Jehovah, and don't focus on ourselves. Never attribute to mere humans what Jehovah is accomplishing.

• David Schafer: Acquire Understanding and Skillful Direction (Prov. 1:5)

  Understanding is defined as seeing into a matter, and figuring out how the individual components work together to build the bigger picture.

  A person with undersanding knows four things:

  • His own responsibility to think

  • He understands what he lacks

  • He understands what Jehovah can impart

  • He understands what others can provide

  His own responsibility to think

  Mark 12:33 - 33 and to love him with one’s whole heart, with one’s whole understanding, and with one’s whole strength and to love one’s neighbor as oneself is worth far more than all the whole burnt offerings and sacrifices.”

  The one with understanding does as much thinking as his bible trained conscience is capable of. He does not want others to think for him, he does as much as he can himself.

  He Understands what he Lacks

  Understands that Jehovah expects him to love with his all his understanding.

  What about Prov 3:5 - We must not rely on our own understanding?

  Prov 19:25 - 25 Strike the ridiculer, so that the inexperienced one may become shrewd, And reprove the understanding one, so that he will increase in knowledge.

  The understanding person does not know everything, and he knows that, and as such, he needs skillful direction, or reproof.

  Prov 21:2 - 2 All of a man’s ways seem right to him, But Jehovah examines the hearts.

  Because we are imperfect, we don't even understand how limited our viewpoints are.

  He understands what Jehovah can impart

  James 1:5 - 5 So if any one of you is lacking in wisdom, let him keep asking God, for he gives generously to all and without reproaching, and it will be given him.

  According to Job, the fear of Jehovah, and to turn away from bad, this is understanding.

  Jehovah can also enhance our understanding, and qualify us to teach others.

  He understands what others can provide

  Job 12:12 - 12 Is not wisdom found among the aged, And does not understanding come with a long life?

  We should spend time with and benefit from the experience of older ones

  There's also nothing wrong from seeking direction from experts in their fields

  Prov 21:30 - 30 There is no wisdom, nor discernment, nor counsel in opposition to Jehovah.

  If there is ever a conflict between a human expert and Jehovah's bible principles, bible principles will always win.

• Izak Marais: “She Did What She Could” (Mark 14:8)

  Mark 14:8 - 8 She did what she could; she poured perfumed oil on my body beforehand, in view of the burial.

  The situation: This was 5 days before Jesus final passover meal. He was at an event, with some of his friends and disciples, and Mary came with an alabaster jar of extremely expensive oil, broke it open on him, and washed him with her hair.

  Mark 14:4,5 - 4 At this some said to one another indignantly: “Why has this perfumed oil been wasted? 5 For this perfumed oil could have been sold for more than 300 de·narʹi·i and the money given to the poor!” And they were greatly annoyed with her.

  The others were annoyed with her, scolded her, and spoke angrily with her. Jesus reply?

  Mark 14:6 - 6 But Jesus said: “Let her alone. Why do you try to make trouble for her? She did a fine deed toward me.

  Jesus commended her. She did what she could. She gave from the purity of her heart, and her very best.

  Mark 14:9 - 9 Truly I say to you, wherever the good news is preached in all the world, what this woman did will also be told in memory of her.”

  Mary didn't do this to make a name for herself, it was Jesus that made a record of it.

  Jesus also helped his disciples to see that no matter the affairs of this life, no matter how important they appear to be, should never override the priority of the kingdom.

  Mark 14:7 - 7 For you always have the poor with you, and you can do them good whenever you want to, but you will not always have me.

  The money they would have obtained for that oil would not have gone very far, it would have been temporary, at best. The priority at that point in time was not the poor, it was Jesus. They needed to understand the seriousness of the times in which they lived.

  John 12:4,5,6 - 4 But Judas Is·carʹi·ot, one of his disciples, who was about to betray him, said: 5 “Why was this perfumed oil not sold for 300 de·narʹi·i and given to the poor?” 6 He said this, though, not because he was concerned about the poor, but because he was a thief and had the money box and used to steal the money put in it.

  The one that brought up the issue, was none other then Judas Iscariot, the one who had been stealing from the money box, and the one who would eventually betray Jesus. Right after this, Judas was counseled, got angry, left and went to the chief priests to see how much they would pay him to betray Jesus. For reference, he sold Jesus out for about 100 de·narʹi·i, only a 3rd of what the oil, and equal to about $450.

  How did this come to be? The greed and anger of Judas opened the way for Satan to gain a foothold, and this put such wicked thoughts into his mind. Greed and Anger were the start of Jesus death, and betrayal buy a trusted associate.

  Lesson for us?

  Jehovah knows everything we do, he knows the love of our heart, he knows our deepest motives.

  Hebrews 6:10 - 10 For God is not unrighteous so as to forget your work and the love you showed for his name by ministering and continuing to minister to the holy ones.

  The service we render to each other, and to Jehovah, will never be forgotten, and we have no idea what consequences that will bring. By such hospitality, some unknowingly entertained angels.

  When (if) Jehovah rewards us with everlasting life, that will be a standing testament to our value to him. It will show that he wants us around forever.

• Mark Sanderson: Let Love Motivate You (1 John 4:8)

  If a brother wishes to become an overseer, it does not happen automatically. He must reach out, and serve the congregation, by genuinely caring for their needs.

  He is filled with an unselfish desire to benefit others

  What is the most important thing we need to grow spiritually?

  1 Cor 8:1 - Knowledge puffs up, but love builds up.

  We need to have knowledge, but its not the most important thing.

  Heb 11:6 - Without faith it is impossible to please god well.

  Heb 6:19 - Our hope is an anchor for the soul, both sure and firm.

  Faith and hope are both important to

  The Greatest thign we need though, is found at

  1 Cor 13: 13 - 13 Now, however, these three remain: faith, hope, love; but the greatest of these is love.

  The greatest of these is love. Why?

  1 John 4:8 - 8 Whoever does not love has not come to know God, because God is love.

  Love affects everything Jehovah does, everything Jehovah is, everything Jehovah wants, all his dealings with his creations, it can rightfully be said that Jehovah God is the personification of love.

  Every single thing Jehovah God does, is guided by love.

  That being said, it is impossible for us to imitate, to obey, and to be used by Jehovah if what we are doing is not motivated by love.

  1 Cor 16:14 - 14 Let everything you do be done with love.

  How does this affect the congregtaion?

  Eph 4:15,16 - 15 But speaking the truth, let us by love grow up in all things into him who is the head, Christ. 16 From him all the body is harmoniously joined together and made to cooperate through every joint that gives what is needed. When each respective member functions properly, this contributes to the growth of the body as it builds itself up in love.

  "let us by love grow up in all things". "this contributes to the growth of the body as it builds itself up in love."

  Spiritual growth has to take place in love, and through love for God and their brothers.

  1 Cor 13:1-3 - If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels but do not have love, I have become a clanging gong or a clashing cymbal.2 And if I have the gift of prophecy and understand all the sacred secrets and all knowledge, and if I have all the faith so as to move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.3 And if I give all my belongings to feed others, and if I hand over my body so that I may boast, but do not have love, I do not benefit at all.

  Our goal is not to impress others or gain some privilege or position. Jehovah wants people who love him with their whole heart, and have that same love for other people, which he and his son constantly manifest.

  A brother who was risking his life in Ukraine to deliver supplies to his brothers said "I'm not special, I'm just helping those in need". That is the attitude we need to have.

• Per Christensen: A Foundational Teaching to Our Faith (1 Cor. 15:17)

  Jesus Ressurection is a key thing that we need to have faith in, otherwise everything falls apart for us.

  1 Cor 15:17 - 17 Further, if Christ has not been raised up, your faith is useless; you remain in your sins.

  If Jesus was never raised up, the ransom was never paid, there is no forgiveness of sins, there is no hope for the future. This life is all there is, if Jesus was never raised up.

  How can we be so sure that Jesus was ressurected?

  1 Cor 15:3-8 - For among the first things I handed on to you was what I also received, that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures;4 and that he was buried, yes, that he was raised up on the third day according to the Scriptures;5 and that he appeared to Ceʹphas, and then to the Twelve.6 After that he appeared to more than 500 brothers at one time, most of whom are still with us, though some have fallen asleep in death.7 After that he appeared to James, then to all the apostles.8 But last of all he appeared also to me as if to one born prematurely.

  Lots of witnesses that saw Jesus. Are they reliable witnesses? Yes. How so? Because of the way they lived their life after Jesus. They lived a life where they were persecuted, sometimes even executed for their faith in Jesus.

  One of the biggest examples of these was Paul himself. He went from a persecutor of Christians to one of the greatest preachers of all time. If he was not sure in Jesus ressurection, would he have gone through all this, and ultimatley died for it?

  2 Cor 11:23-27 - Are they ministers of Christ? I reply like a madman, I am more outstandingly one: I have done more work, been imprisoned more often, suffered countless beatings, and experienced many near-deaths.24 Five times I received 40 strokes less one from the Jews,25 three times I was beaten with rods, once I was stoned, three times I experienced shipwreck, a night and a day I have spent in the open sea;26 in journeys often, in dangers from rivers, in dangers from robbers, in dangers from my own people, in dangers from the nations, in dangers in the city, in dangers in the wilderness, in dangers at sea, in dangers among false brothers,27 in labor and toil, in sleepless nights often, in hunger and thirst, frequently without food, in cold and lacking clothing.

  Paul suffered all this by choice, because he believed beyond a shadow of a doubt that Jesus had been resurrected. We can share this confidence.

• Thinking about Additional Education (Gov Body Update 2025 #5)

  Just some scriptural principles to think about when considering if you should do secular education.

• Joel Dellinger: “I Have Called You Friends” (John 15:15)

  Jesus, our master, views us as close friends.

  Why do we need friendship with Jesus?

  John 14:6 - No one comes to the father except through me

  John 16:27 - For the father himself has affection for you, because you have affection for me.

  We need to have affection for, or close friendship with Jesus, in order to also be Jehovah's friend.

  John 15:13 - 13 No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his life in behalf of his friends.

  This is exactly what Jesus did, no?

  John 17:3 - 3 This means everlasting life, their coming to know you, the only true God, and the one whom you sent, Jesus Christ.

  Coming to know and befriend Jesus, the son, is the key or entry point to becoming Jehovah's Friend as well.

  How to build and maintain friendship with Jesus?

  Getting to know Jesus, and getting to know him better.

  This can be done by reading, and meditating on the Gospels

  As we do this, our love and respect for him increases.

  Heb 13:8 - 8 Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today, and forever.

  Jesus, like his father, does not change, and treats his servants and friends the same today as he did when he was on earth.

  Jesus was self sacrificing and forgiving. He always through about helping others more then he thought about helping himself.

  Acts 1:8 - 8 But you will receive power when the holy spirit comes upon you, and you will be witnesses of me in Jerusalem, in all Ju·deʹa and Sa·marʹi·a, and to the most distant part of the earth.”

  This was after his friends abandoned him, and denied him 3x. There was no disappointment or regret in his voice. He forgave them and reassured them of his trust in them. Same today.

• Ronald Curzan: Learn From the Past; Don’t Live in It (Phil. 3:13-15)

  Living in the past can make things very difficult for us. We often need to let go of things that happened in the past, and focus on our present circumstances.

  Phil 3:13,14 - 14 I am pressing on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God by means of Christ Jesus. 15 Therefore, let those of us who are mature be of this mental attitude, and if you are mentally inclined otherwise in any respect, God will reveal the above attitude to you.

  Paul was not concerned about the past define who he was, and instead focused on what was important to him now, and pressed forward with that knowledge. He let go of what he couldn't change. He refused to dwell on things that happened in the past.

  Jehovah will help us keep the correct attitude and perspective, but we need to do our part. Keep focusing on things that are positive and upbuilding.

  We have many faithful examples, both in the bible and modern day, of people who let go of the past, and focus on the present, and on the promises God has made us that will take place in the near future.

  I must ask, does this apply to Reina? Is it time to forget her? If so, why am I being sent to Japan? Is it for something else? Am I needed for some other reason? Will she be sent to Okinawa too? If I'm to forget her, why does she keep popping up in various places? Why does it feel like like Jehovah, or somebody, doesn't want me to forget her? I will gladly go wherever I am sent, and serve wherever I am needed. But... I'd rather not forget her if it at all possible, but if this admonition applies to us in this specific situation, who are we to deny it? But why does evidence on hand seem contrary? There are points both for and against. Why do things have to be so confusing.

• 2025 Governing Body Update #6

  Matt 15:22-28

  This is the account of the Phoe·niʹcian woman who came to beg Jesus to heal her daughter. At first, he ignored her, and she continued to beg. Then Jesus finally said he wasn't sent to help anyone but Jehovah's people, but she continued to beg. Finally, Jesus said "O woman, great is your faith" and healed her daughter.

  She was happy with just the crumbs of Jesus attention, and had great faith he could heal her daughter. As such, Jesus was so moved by her faith, and even though he was not sent to help her, he do so anyways in a miraculous way.

  She displayed 3 very important qualities:

  • Humility

  • Persistence

  • Faith

  Cross Reference Matt 7:7-11

  We must regularly feed on spiritual food and develop an appetite for it by studying, and by learning.

  Jehovah and Jesus really really want to help those who are conscious of their spiritual need, even if they don't deserve it, and even if it isn't really part of the plan.

  Lesson: We must truly rely on Jehovah. And when we want something, in accordance with his will obviously, obnoxiously ask for it. Become as annoying as the Phoe·niʹcian woman, and maybe mercy will be granted us.

Other Notes

• Nutrition & Balanced Diet

  • Variety is important. Restricting to a few "super foods" is dumb.

    • Color in fruits and vegetables indicate different vitamins and nutrients

  • Food Groups - My Plate Model

    • Half of plate to be filled with Fruits & Vegetables

      • Broccoli, spinach, berries, apples, carrots, bell peppers, leafy greens

    • Quarter of plate with protein

      • Lean meats like chicken or turkey, fish, beans, lentils, nuts, seeds, tofu.

    • Quarter of plate with grains, preferably whole grains

      • Whole wheat bread, brown rice, oats, quinoa.

    • Dairy

      • Milk, yogurt, cheese

  • Macronutrients

    • Protein: Crucial for building and repairing tissues, enzyme production, and immune function.

      • Eggs, Chicken & Turkey, Fish & Seafood, Lean Meats (beef, pork), Dairy

      • Beans & Legumes, Tofu, Nuts & Seeds, Peanut Butters

      • Frozen Options are OK, they don't lose much nutrition and are often more affordable.

      • Whole Foods are better: An entire chicken breast over processed lunch meat.

        • Really anything processed you want to watch out for. See Processed Foods Below

    • Carbohydrates: Primary energy source. Choose whole grains for sustained energy and fiber.

    • Fats: Important for growth, development, and essential bodily functions. Choose healthy unsaturated fats.

      • Olive oil, avocados, nuts, seeds.

  • Things to avoid:

    • Added sugars (sweets & sugary drinks)

    • Saturated & Trans Fats

    • Excessive Sodium

      • ~2000mg/day for an adult human

  • Drink Lots of Water

  • Holistic Approach

    • Getting the numbers to add up perfectly is exhausting and provides little benefit. Aim for close, any effort spent in improving diet is better then no effort spent.

  • Processed Foods

    Not all processed foods are bad, but the more processed a food is, the worse it gets. Some things to look for:

    • Long and complex lists of ingredients

      • Unknown ingredients:

        • Thickeners, stabilizers, or emulsifiers: Soy lecithin, guar gum, xanthan gum, carrageenan, mono- and diglycerides, carboxymethylcellulose.

        • Added sugars and sweeteners: Corn syrup, cane sugar, malt syrup, molasses. Be wary of ingredients ending in "-ose" like sucrose, maltose, dextrose, fructose, or glucose.

        • Artificial or "fake" sugars: Aspartame, sucralose, acesulfame-k, saccharin, stevia.

        • Other additives: Artificial colors, flavors, preservatives, foaming/anti-foaming agents, gelling agents.

      • Refined Grains are worse then Whole Grains. If it doesn't say whole, its probably refined.

      • Added sodium and fats

    • What's it look like?

      • If the food looks close to what its original form was, its probably less processed. However, a bag of "veggie" snacks that looks nothing like vegetables is likely ultra-processed.

    • Consider source and packaging

      • For whatever reason, many ultra-processed foods are stored in the center of the grocery store, where the less processed foods are stored on the perimeter. Probably because they require more turn over, and need to be replaced faster?

- Processing Foods Ourselves (aka Cooking)

    **Simple Cooking Methods**

    - **Roasting:** This is one of the easiest ways to cook vegetables and proteins. Toss with a little olive oil, salt, and pepper, and roast in the oven until tender and slightly browned. This works well for potatoes, chicken, salmon, and a variety of vegetables like broccoli, carrots, and sweet potatoes.

    - **Grilling:** If you have access to a grill, it's a fantastic option for cooking meat, fish, and vegetables quickly and easily. It also adds a nice smoky flavor.

    - **Steaming:** This is a healthy way to cook vegetables and fish without adding any extra fat. It's especially good for delicate vegetables like broccoli and spinach.

    - **One-Pot Meals:** Soups, stews, and chilis are all great options for one-pot meals. They're easy to prepare, require minimal cleanup, and are perfect for using up leftover vegetables or protein.

    - **Slow Cooker:** This is a great option for people who want to cook healthy meals with minimal effort. You can put all the ingredients in the slow cooker in the morning and have a delicious meal ready when you get home.

    **Simple Recipies:**

    - **Bowls:** Start with a base of cooked grains (like brown rice or quinoa) and add your favorite protein (roasted chicken, beans, or lentils) and roasted or steamed vegetables. Top with a simple sauce or dressing, like pesto, salsa, or a curry sauce.

    - **Stir-Fries:** Stir-fries are quick and easy to make, and they're a great way to use up leftover vegetables. Simply sauté your favorite vegetables and protein in a pan with a little oil and a flavorful sauce.

    - **Soups:** A simple soup can be made with broth, chopped vegetables, and a protein source like beans or lentils. Season with herbs and spices for extra flavor.

    - **Salads:** Don't underestimate the power of a good salad! Combine your favorite greens, vegetables, protein, and a healthy dressing for a quick and easy meal.

    - **Wraps:** Use whole-grain wraps and fill them with hummus, vegetables, cheese, or lean protein.

    **Utilize Pre-Prepared Ingredients:**

    - **Pre-cut vegetables and fruits:** Many grocery stores offer pre-cut options that can save you time and effort. Or just cut them yourself, don't pay extra for cutting things.

    - **Canned beans and lentils:** These are a quick and easy way to add protein and fiber to your meals.

    - **Rotisserie chicken:** A store-bought rotisserie chicken can be shredded and used in a variety of dishes, like wraps, salads, or bowls.

    - **Pre-cooked grains:** Some grocery stores sell pre-cooked grains, like brown rice or quinoa, that can be heated up and added to meals.

    - **Hard-boiled eggs:** These are a quick and easy protein source that can be eaten on their own or added to salads or wraps.

- Simple Recipes For Japan

    Ingredients:

    - A lot of things use "だし", our soup stock. You can make yourself, but its also much easier to just [buy at the store](https://www.justonecookbook.com/how-to-make-dashi/#h-dashi-shortcut). 

    **Rice Bowls (Donburi):**

    - **Oyakodon (Chicken and Egg Rice Bowl):** A classic and comforting dish made with chicken, egg, and onions simmered in a savory broth and served over rice. In Mealie!

    - **Gyudon (Japanese Beef Rice Bowl):** Similar to Oyakodon, but with thinly sliced beef instead of chicken. In Mealie!

    - **Yakimeshi (Japanese Fried Rice):** A simple and quick way to use up leftover rice and any vegetables or protein you have on hand. In Mealie (although kinda hard)!

    - **Soboro Don (Ground Chicken Bowl):** Ground chicken simmered in a sweet and savory sauce, served over rice.

    - **Takikomi Gohan (Japanese Mixed Rice):** A flavorful one-pot rice dish cooked with vegetables and your choice of meat or seafood. In Mealie!

    **Noodles:**

    - **Udon or Soba Noodle Soup:** Thick Udon or thin Soba noodles served in a savory broth with various toppings like green onions, seaweed, or tempura. matcha-jp.com says Udon is a budget-friendly and tasty dish that is loved by many people in Japan.

    - **Yaki Udon:** Stir-fried Udon noodles with vegetables and your choice of protein. [BBC Good Food offers a recipe for Veggie yaki udon](https://www.bbcgoodfood.com/health/healthy-food-guides/healthy-japanese-inspired-recipes).

    - **Soba Noodle Salad:** A refreshing chilled noodle dish with vegetables and a flavorful dressing. 

    **Soups:**

    - **Miso Soup:** A staple of Japanese cuisine, made with miso paste, seaweed, tofu, and other ingredients. According to Pocket Friendly Recipes, Miso Soup is perfect for those looking for a budget-friendly meal that still feels special.

    - **Kenchinjiru:** A clear soup with root vegetables, tofu, and shiitake mushrooms. 

    **Other Easy & Healthy Options:**

    - **Onigiri (Japanese Rice Balls):** Portable and customizable with various fillings, like pickled plums, seasoned seaweed, or tuna mayonnaise.

    - **Tamagoyaki (Japanese Rolled Omelette):** A slightly sweet layered omelette that can be eaten on its own or used in other dishes.

    - **Yakitori (Japanese Grilled Chicken Skewers):** Easy to make with bite-sized chicken pieces seasoned with salt or tare (a sweet and savory sauce).

    - **Baked Tonkatsu (Lighter Chicken Katsu):** A healthier version of the classic breaded and fried pork cutlet.

    - **Edamame:** Steamed and lightly salted young soybeans that are a great source of protein and fiber.

    - **Miso Glazed Eggplant:** A simple and flavorful dish using eggplant and miso glaze.

    - **Japanese Cucumber Salad (Sunomono):** A refreshing side dish with a sweet and tangy dressing. 

    **Tips for Shopping and Cooking in Japan:**

    - **Grocery Stores:** Japan has fantastic grocery stores with a wide variety of fresh and affordable ingredients.

    - **Convenience Stores:** Convenience stores (konbini) offer pre-made onigiri and other quick options.

    - **Seasonal Ingredients:** Buying seasonal produce can be more affordable and flavorful.

    - **Local Markets:** Explore local markets for fresh ingredients and unique regional specialties.

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